Thursday, December 09, 2004

Discovering Your Own Circle of True Friendship

In his essay "The Inner Ring" (The Weight of Glory, 1949) C.S. Lewis talks about the lure and the desire that some people have to belong to the "inner circle" of a group of people. To be part of the "in" crowd; to claim the Cool Group as your own:

The quest of the Inner Ring will break your hearts unless you break it. But if you break it, a surprising result will follow. If in your working hours you make the work your end, you will presently find yourself all unawares inside the only circle in your profession that really matters. You will be one of the sound craftsmen, and other sound craftsmen will know it. This group of craftsmen will by no means coincide with the Inner Ring or the Important People or the People in the Know... And if in your spare time you consort simply with the people you like, you will again find that you have come unawares to a real inside, that you are indeed snug and safe at the centre of something which, seen from without, would look exactly like an Inner Ring. But the difference is that its secrecy is accidental, and its exclusiveness a by-product, and no one was led thither by the lure of the esoteric, for it is only four or five people who like one another meeting to do things that they like. This is friendship. Aristotle placed it among the virtues. It causes perhaps half of all the happiness in the world, and no Inner Ringer can ever have it.
~C.S. Lewis, "The Inner Ring", The Weight of Glory (1949)


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